Well, tomorrow my stepdaughter is getting married. We are not very happy that this is occurring but it is her life and she is living it the way she likes, so as long as she's happy, I will be happy for her. We can not figure out the reason she is staying with this boy. I say boy because when he is fifty he will still be a child. He treats her badly, cheated on her twice that we know of and ain't even cute. She is a beautiful women. She has the potential to be intelligent if she'd let herself. Its funny growing up, I never realized how insecure she is. She has no self confidence. At least looking at her now, it seems that way. He has gotten her into criminal trouble, he has tore up every vehicle she has owned since she meet him, they live with his parents and currently don't have transportation. She is working. He just started a new job 2 weeks ago. She has had 4 jobs since she meet him. He has been through over a dozen jobs in the two years they've been together. We are all looking at this situation and cringing. But it is her life and no matter what we think of it, she has the right to live it the way she wishes. Who am I to say if they really love each other or not, who am I to say they will not make it, who am I to wish ill will on them, I am no one. As hard as it is, I do wish them all the best life has to offer. My hope for them is to live well and be happy.
Just thinking out loud for all the world to see...........
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