Friday the 5th

                   Some days we should just stay in bed! Gee, I know a couple of people who would turn that into a naughty comment, but it was meant in the context of if we never got up we'd never have been exposed to the crap the day brought! Some days are, well there aren't really nice words to describe some days. They suck! And they usually feel like they are 72 hours long, they just drag on and on. All we want to do is make it through in one piece, well one is preferred but as few as possible is accepted. Just when you think you have a problem solved it turns into 10. When you think you have finally come to an understanding with an individual, guess what, they still don't get it. It doesn't matter how many times you explain things, if they chose not to hear you or accept what your saying then your right back to square one. Its like banging your head against a wall, repeatedly. The connection is definitely there, but the wants and needs are as far apart from one another as east is from west! Both have stated their positions plainly, and neither wants to give the other up but they can not agree on how to move forward. There is no acceptable common ground, and they will not budge on what they want from each other. So it would seem the only answer is to leave the situation at a stalemate and move forward without them in your life anymore. It is not pleasant nor is it what either of you want but it is what must be done, to save each others sanity. Love them enough to disappear from their lives, they will eventually forget you ever existed. And they will gain a foothold on sanity without you screwing with their soul. Wounds heal, scars remain as beautiful memories of  bitter pasts. It would be better to find common ground and keep their presence in your life but that isn't always possible, your very existence is why it isn't possible. They can not get past certain aspects of you, to be able to function normally around you. It is better to let go, lonely but better.
                                        Just thinking out loud for all the world to see.............